December 21, 2005

  • Topic: The strike, and the meetup.com, and serenity now!


    I ended up not taking the Long Island Rail Road home last night, but will be on it today after work.  I’ve just seen some of the pictures and read the reports, and it looks like it was a friggin’ madhouse.  Penn Station was overflowing with people, and their were massive waits for trains.  I’m hoping to get out a bit early and maybe beat some of that rush…definately looking forward to reading more about how this is going to turn out.


    Let me turn quickly to “serenity now,” the famous Seinfeld quote of Frank Costanza, his way of calming himself down.


    I need calm in my life…just a little bit of calm everyday.  Time alone.  Time to recognize that I have time, time to think, time to simply be along, time to not worry about work, my future, or anything or anyone.  Time to get a better hold of time.  Time to slow down time, which tends to go quickly in a day. 


    I’m working on creating a daily routine that could be applied throughout my lifetime, regardless of where and when I am.  A routine with built in flexibility.  Along with healthy eating and exercise, I’m hoping to build in time for calm.  Might have to shave a few minutes from sleeping, or simply be more efficient with my time throughout the day, but having calm time I think is something I need these days.


    I went to my 2nd meet-up event last night, for the NYC travelers group.  It’s possibly the most ideal way to meet people, and have a good night of socializing.  The topic of travel certainly came up, but that’s essentially the ice breaker that allowed 10-or-so strangers to just start having free-flowing conversations.  They have meet-ups for all sorts of things, and I’m hoping to start making that part of my monthly routine.


    I feel like being a bit creative now…so bear w/ me here, as I end this post with some stream of conscious-type writing:


    Life is good
    and not good
    Life is
    It is envigorating
    and dull
    it is
    Life is intense
    and overwhelming
    and calm
    this life
    This life is lonely
    and boring
    and life is
    life is not these things
    Life is full of entertainment
    and people
    and community
    life is
    It is technology
    and nautre
    Sleep and awake
    What is life?
    It is not life
    It is
    It is now
    and yesturday
    and odds are tomorrow it will be as well
    It hurts
    and stings
    this life
    and terrorizes my heart
    and our hearts
    Life is what we try to escape
    and life what we try to embrace
    Because life is
    life is
    life is
    Life is beauty
    and creativity
    and spontaneous
    This life
    It is nothing
    Nothing we can control
    Nothing that matters
    It is life
    It is what is written
    and not
    spoken
    heard
    and muted
    seen
    and covered
    blind from our eyes
    Life
    Life is
    Life are these words
    and dark
    beyond our comprehension

    To life, to life
    L’Chaim
    L’Chaim, L’Chaim
    To life

Comments (2)

  • serenity now, insanity later

    boston has a meetup.com group….i used to go to some of the events way back but found it was a lot of 30+ people and it wasn’t really my thing…maybe one day when im older and move to a new city…

  • Time for calm. Yes, indeed – great that you’re discovering that at a young age. Saves so much wear and tear over the years. And the what’s it all about alfie poem is neat too.

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