I’ve watched your thinking for a while. You’re looking, of course, for “authentic” educational experiences. This is a key thing for me as well, and has been since I was lucky enough (truly) to get put into an “alternative ed” high school program developed by Dr. Neil Postman of NYU (whose stuff you want to read if you haven’t). Here’s part of his introduction to that high school:
“Most school curricula are based on a set of assumptions which the experimental program rejects. For example, most school programs assume (1) that knowledge is best presented and comprehended when organized into “subjects,” (2) that there are “major” subjects and “minor” ones, (3) that subjects are things you “take,” and that once you have “had” them, you need not take them again, (4) that most subjects have a specific “content,” (5) that the content of these subjects is more or less stable, (6) that a major function of the teacher is to “transmit” this content (7), that the practical place to do this is in a room within a centrally located building, (8) that students learn best in 45-minute periods which are held five times a week, (9) that students are functioning well (i.e., learning) when they are listening to their teacher, reading their texts, doing their assignments, and otherwise “paying attention” to the content being transmitted, and (10) that all of this must go on as a preparation for life.

“This memorandum is not the forum for a serious and thorough critique of these assumptions. Hopefully, it is sufficient to say that contemporary educational philosophy disputes most of them, in part or whole, and that few teachers would deny the merit of experimenting with programs based on an entirely different set of beliefs.

“The following quotation from Walden expresses compactly the major beliefs which generate the form of the new program:

“Students should not play life, or study it merely while the community supports them at this expensive game, but earnestly live it from beginning to end. How could youths better learn to live than by at once trying the experiment of living?

“In other words, we are assuming (1) that learning takes places best not when conceived as a preparation for life but when it occurs in the context of actually living, (2) that each learner ultimately must organize his own learning in his own way, (3) that “problems” and personal interests rather than “subjects” are a more realistic structure by which to organize learning experiences, (4) that students are capable of directly and authentically participating in the intellectual and social life of their community, (5) that they should do so, and (6) that the community badly needs them.

“This set of beliefs is sometimes referred to as the “judo” principle of education. Instead of trying to forestall, resist, or neutralize the natural curiosity, intelligence, energy, and idealism of youth, one uses it in a context which permits both them and their community to change. Thus, the experimental program reduces the reliance on classrooms and school buildings; it transforms the relevant problems of the community and the special interests of individual students into the students’ “curriculum”; it looks toward the creation of a sense of community in both The Program students and adults.”